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Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.
Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.
Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.

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  1. Dianne Ridley says

    I have a 15 month old who used to sleep through. We are on our 3rd week of being up. She screams at the top of her voice. We check all the usual.hinger. wet. Even give calpol and teething gel. Nothing will settle her and it’s getting worse. Any suggestions?

    • Danielle says

      Hi Dianne,
      Thank you for checking out The Baby Sleep Site! I’m sorry to hear you’re having such a huge sleep bump. Unfortunately, as you saw in the article, there are a lot of reasons for toddlers to wake at night. If you’ve ruled out a health problem, like an ear infection, we would next recommend going to a personalized sleep consultation, since a sleep consultant would be able to take a sleep history, look at her schedule and upcoming milestones, and help you make adjustments to maximize her sleep. You can see our packages here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-sleep-consulting-services/
      I hope this helps, and please let us know if you have any questions!

  2. Sorath says

    My baby wake up so many time in night and she is crying she is 15th month old,and when I give milk then she sleep she wants every time milk bottle in the mouth

    • Janelle Reid says

      Hi @Sorath, I’m sorry to hear you’ve been struggling with your daughter’s sleep. Here is a link to a free guide that will give you some tips to help your baby sleep through the night: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-through-night-free-ebook/
      It may take some time to implement the tips so hang in there! If you need more support, please let us know. We have a lot of other resources including personalized sleep consulting if you need more help. Please feel free to contact us directly anytime at [email protected] and we can help point you in the direction of other resources we have available that can help.

  3. Bianca says

    My 13 month old wakes up every single night screaming on the top of his lungs. He wont let anybody hold him to comfort he wont calm down on his own it takes a long time and he cries to the point he throws up. I try to put lullabies on the phone for him to hear and see and try to offer things to him just so we can get him to just stop crying. We all can’t sleep especially my poor 6 year old. What can we do? His bedtime is at 830 same routine, bath, lotion, then dim lights in the room and put him in the crib

    • Debbye @ The Baby Sleep Site says

      Hi @Bianca – Thank you for writing and I am sorry that your little guy is waking at night, and understand how really tough it is when baby is screaming loudly and will not settle! We completely understand how perplexing and exhausting this can be! If you are looking for free resources, we welcome you to peruse our blog with hundreds of free articles or, if you prefer to bypass some of that, we have e-Books and premium resources available where the research has been done for you. Or, for the fastest service, we have expert sleep consultants waiting to help get your family sleeping well!
      All of our email consultation packages for new clients include a Personalized Sleep Plan, which is a detailed guide written just for your family given your specific sleep history. If you would like help fro one of our wonderful and caring consultants, at any time, please check out our sleep consultation packages here:
      https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-toddler-sleep-consulting-services
      Hang in there! Please contact us if you have any questions at any time!

  4. Tyron says

    My daughter is 1 and she rolls around and moans in her sleep the entire night. I’ve tried feeding, changing nappies more regularly, sleep positions, changed from her cot to our bed, I’ve nearly everything. She will sleep in our arms for 10min and then she is back to moving around.

    Please could you shed some light on this matter.

    • Debbye @ The Baby Sleep Site says

      Hi @Tyron – Thank you for writing, and I am sorry that your little one is not sleeping peacefully! Have you asked your baby’s doctor about this? Perhaps she is a very “light” sleeper and is sleeping just fine, but for your peace of mind, you may want to confer with your pediatrician. We would be happy to take an in depth look at her sleep and her sleep history and help create a schedule and routine that will maximize her sleep, and a Plan to implement! But again, you may want to check in with her Doctor first!
      Please contact us if you have any questions! : )

  5. Saziya shaikh says

    My child is 2 1/2yrs he wakes up in a middle of his sleep n night. Whn he wake up he dont cry or scream bt he wants us also to wake up with him. If i gv him feeder also he tk tht in mouth with eyes open till morning 7.00 n thn he goes to slip

    • Danielle says

      Hi Saziya,
      Thank you for using The Baby Sleep Site as a resource! I’m sorry to hear your toddler is waking so much at night! Based on your comment, it sounds like some of his issues might be related to his schedule, and/or he has some sleep associations that are making it hard for him to fall asleep on his own when he wakes up at night. We have a sample toddler schedule you can see here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/schedules/toddler-schedule/
      And an article on sleep associations and what they are here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/sleep-association
      I hope those will help, but please let us know if you have more questions!

  6. Loranda says

    my babe just turned 1. he falls asleep on his own (bed and naps). gets up often at night, and recently ALL night. i believe it’s due to him being too cold; i add blankets through the night. we’ve tried different room temps, we keep the fan on- but pointed away, but he’s constantly slipping out of the blankets- sometimes hes completely out. i’ve tried putting him in a sleeper, but he would wake sooner from being too hot. i believe he is teething- he’s had 6 teeth for a few months now, he’s always chewing/biting, but i don’t feel that teething is the problem; he’s not in pain. any ideas?

    • Janelle Reid says

      @Loranda, thank you for writing to us. I am sorry you are experiencing frequent night wakings with your son. If it is the temperature, I would continue to experiment with different sleep sacs and pajamas – they make different thickness of sleep sacs so you do not have to get a heavy fleece one for instance, if you are in a warmer climate. Another contributor to the problem may be that your son has some sleep associations that are causing him to wake up. When he wakes, how are you handling putting him back down? Does if you are having to help him go down for those wake ups, you will want to slowly wean him from whatever that may be (rocking/bottle/nursing/etc). Here is a link to an article about sleep associations with more information on that: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/sleep-association/ and another article series with different sleep training methods: https://www.babysleepsite.com/sleep-training/sleep-training-from-no-cry-to-cry-series-part-1/
      I hope you see some improvement in his sleep soon! Thank you for using the Baby Sleep Site as a resource for sleep!

  7. Julie says

    My 19 month old daughter has not been a great sleeper since she was about six months old (waking 3-5 times per night), but in the last week or so, she has been sleeping even worse. It is hard for her to stay settled for even an hour. Is this an 18 month sleep regression or is this just her sleep habits getting worse?

    • Emily DeJeu says

      @ Julie – It’s likely the 18 month regression that’s exacerbating your usual problems, I’d guess. But rest assured that at this point, you really don’t have to suffer through awful nighttime waking! Your little one is no doubt biologically and developmentally ready to sleep through the night. If you haven’t already, it may be time to try sleep coaching. Our free toddler guide (https://www.babysleepsite.com/toddler-sleep-training-secrets-free-ebook/) is a great place to start. Hope that info helps! Good luck to you and to your family 🙂 Thanks for commenting!

  8. Kate says

    Hi there, any tips with this situation…
    My 5 month old has 3 or 4 sleeps a day (generally 3 now). Puts herself to sleep during the day with a eat play sleep routine. However at bedtime- usually 6-630 she cries hysterically. Breastfeeding is not relaxing and we give her a bottle. She generally gets very upset once in the cot. We leave her to cry, go in and reassure (which makes it worse) then end up rocking her till she calms down. She sometimes goes back in the cot awake and goes to sleep. She is still feeding once overnight with no issues. Thanks!

    • Emily DeJeu says

      @ Kate – how frustrating! Have you tried reconciling your daughters usual schedule with our sample 5 month old baby schedule? You can see it here: https://www.babysleepsite.com/schedules/5-month-old-baby-schedule/ 3 naps is on the shorter side for a 5 month old, so it may be that you need to adjust the timing of naps to allow for a 4th catnap; that may ward off overtiredness. It could also be that bedtime is too late. Look closely at the gap between the end of her last nap and bedtime; it could be that the gap is too long, and that by bedtime, she’s overly tired and upset.

      Hope these tips help, Kate – best of luck to you! Thanks for commenting.

  9. Fallon says

    My14 month old son always takes 2 naps a day, ranging from 1-2 hours each. Goes to bed between 7-7:30. And always wakes up around 3:45-4. Plays around in his crib for an hour or so then might fall back to sleep until 6. How can I get him to sleep thru until 6. Could he be taking to long of naps during the day?

    • Emily DeJeu says

      @ Fallon – yes, those naps do sound on the long side – and bedtime at 7:00 is a bit early if his second nap is 2 hours long. I’d recommend making sure that all naps are done by mid-afternoon, if you want to stick to a 7:00 or 7:30 bedtime. Or, if that’s not working, you may want to push bedtime back a bit.

      Hope that helps! Thanks for commenting. 🙂

  10. Jessica says

    My 20 month old daughter was doing awesome. One solid nap of anywhere from an hour and a half to three hours and sleeping from 7:30 or 8 until 6:30. Not sure what happened but we are dealing with tough naps (not wanting to go to sleep) and then often when she dies she’s waking up screaming – we had two days in a row of awesome so I’m hoping we are on the way out. She’s also been waking at least once most nights, usually around 5:30. We go in and feed her and she goes back to sleep. I have a feeling we shouldn’t be feeding her but it’s easy and we know she’ll fall back asleep for at least 45 minutes. Hoping it’s teething and that it will go away! I’m pregnant with #2 and need my sleep!

    • Emily DeJeu says

      @ Jessica – possibly a late onset of the 18 month sleep regression? If she normally sleeps well, then I’d bet this is a phase that will pass. Hang tough and keep doing what you usually do.

      Hope this helps, Jessica! Best of luck to you and your family (and hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well!). 🙂