Some say your baby’s nursery should be light during the day to avoid day / night confusion while others say a darkened room will help your baby nap better. Who’s right? This article will discuss whether your baby’s room should be light or dark at nap time and why.
It is true that your baby can get confused as to whether it is daytime or nighttime, if they are in a dark place too long and for too much of the day. This is because light or sunlight stimulating our eyes is what “sets” our internal clocks to know whether we should be awake or asleep. This is also the way adults who work the graveyard shift can learn to stay awake all night and sleep all day. The fact your eyes are closed and it’s dark in your room, even when it’s 11 a.m. and the fact you might be in a lightened place or staring at a computer screen at 3 a.m. can “trick” your body into knowing to sleep during the day and not at night. Obviously, this does not happen overnight and can be more or less difficult, depending on the person. My mom was a nurse for many years who worked nights and, even though she is retired, she still has trouble sleeping all night and not during the day.
But, how much is this a concern for your baby’s naps?
It is very important to clearly establish day and night with your newborn. When they were in your womb, they were lulled to sleep by your movement during the day and woke up at night (I’m sure you remember). And, if you don’t establish to their internal clock that it’s actually the reverse, you run the risk of being up at all hours in the middle of the night with a very awake baby, even if they are short periods of alertness. You will be even more exhausted than those of us who get up every two to three hours for night feedings.
But, once your baby has had day and night sleep clearly separated and your baby is no longer a newborn, a darkened nursery can do wonders for your baby’s napping!
For the same reason that the light establishes your baby should be awake, it can be difficult for your baby to sleep in a light room, once she becomes more social (which begins around 6 weeks old when she may smile at you!). There are so many interesting things to look at, especially if you are like most parents who want the nursery to be an inviting and comfortable place for your baby and decorate it as such. Sleeping in a light room can be especially difficult for perceptive children who will find the smallest thing to entertain themselves. In fact, my eldest son couldn’t even have a nightlight until he was a toddler! He was too young to be scared of the dark and was used to the darkness in my womb, so removing his nightlight improved his night sleep and room-darkening blinds (or you may prefer curtains) helped his naps and him from waking too early in the morning.
But, what if your baby naps too much?
Most people who frequent this site do not necessarily have this problem (babies and toddlers need up to three hours of daytime sleep for a looong time!), but there are no rules to say you can’t open the blinds or curtains and simulate the sunrise during her nap. After your baby has napped at least one hour, you might let some light in for her to naturally awaken during her next sleep cycle. There is such a thing as “napping too much” in that it can “rob” night sleep, but generally, this is not a problem for most people. Most people want to know how to lengthen naps in the first place!
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Amy Snellman says
We have completely blackened our toddlers soon since he was little but now are finding it hard when we go anywhere else during nap time or traveling. Should we start to brighten his room so that he can sleep in an environment?
Debbye @ The Baby Sleep Site says
Hi @Amy – Thanks for writing to us! You can certainly play around with your baby’s room environment, and add a little light to help naps be a little more flexible! If having a little light does not bother her, then it’s fine to change that! Some families will bring room darkening “tools” with them for travel or naps outside the home, so that’s an option too, if he does seem to nap better in a very dark room! Some families will travel with extra blankets to put across windows, or even a roll of tin foil to put up temporarily to block out the light! Find what works best for you! Good luck Amy!
Jenny says
What if there is no way to darken a room when you’re somewhere else than at home?
Danielle says
Hi Jenny,
Thank you for using The Baby Sleep Site as a resource! If you’re in a hotel or someone else’s home, there may not be a great way to darken the room, but it’s usually worth trying to block the light if you can. I have personally taped a large black trash bag over the window and had decent success, and I’m sure there are other options. I hope this helps – good luck!
Mads says
Hi Jenny
We take a roll of aluminium foil and pack of baby wipes with us whenever we travel; if you wipe down any windows with the wipes, the aluminium foil will temporarily stick to it which helps block out light!
Debbye @ The Baby Sleep Site says
Great tip @Mads! Thanks for sharing! : )
Lainie says
I know, Nicole! She was 5 months old when I first started seeking out your help. She’ll be 3 in July!!
Thanks for the help.
nikita says
my baby hardly sleeps during the day but still he doesn’t sleep trough the night and he is a year old. my room is also very dark but still he wakes u in the early morning ours playing
Debbye says
Hi Nikita,
You may want to check out the sample schedules for toddlers to see if your son is getting enough sleep and at the right times?
https://www.babysleepsite.com/schedules/toddler-schedule/
Lainie says
My 2.5 year old still has a sheet on her window. Classy. 😉 But it works. Perhaps too well.
She sleeps 2 hours during the day, 12:30-2:30. Great nap, but she does NOT fall asleep until 8:45 or 9 (or later) every night. She just sings and plays in her crib – simply not tired.
Should I shorten her nap? On the rare day that she takes a 45-minute nap (or misses a nap), she’s out like a light at 7:30 or 8.
Astrid says
Yes, my son used to nap for only 30 minutes but he was definitely still tired and sleepy because that time our baby room was very bright with a lot of disney sticker on the wall. Until I found this website, change the curtain and make the room dark, then he can nap A LOT better! And of course he then can sleep better also at night time.
Nicole says
@Astrid Thank you for commenting and sharing darkening curtains helped!
@Lainie Yeah, for our younger son, we put a blanket up in his room. LOL! We have “real” blinds for the older child, but we didn’t think we’d need them the second time around and never bothered to order some. I still thought it was temporary and we did remove it only to put it back on so he’d sleep later on the weekends. 😉 It is common for 2 1/2 year olds to begin to need longer before bed to fall asleep. If she’s happy in there, I’d keep the nap longer and maybe just bump bedtime to 8:30 p.m. More play time might make her more tired for bed. It sounds like she’s doing great! I can’t believe she’s 2 1/2! I remember talking to you about her in the Helpdesk and I guess it was years ago, now! 🙂