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Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.
Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.
Exhausted and Confused?   Yes! I need help and more sleep.

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  1. mary beth einhorn says

    Laurie…..I found this and am thinking of getting it. It’s like a hammock for a plane. Not sure how big your baby is, but it could work. Flyebaby.com

  2. Emily DeJeu says

    @ Anna Talis — awesome tip! Thanks so much for suggesting this. See, this is why it’s so great to have a community of readers — I didn’t even know this was an option. Thanks, Anna! 🙂

    @ Laurie — so glad this article will help! As for tips regarding the plane trip: bring lots of snacks. In my experience, that’s the most expedient way to keep a little one happy on a plane. 🙂 You’ll also want to bring a few of his favorite toys. Finally, take advantage of the time when the “fasten seatbelt” sign is off and walk around with him a little.

    Hope it goes well, Laurie! And I’m sure other moms (who are more well-traveled than I) will be able to advise you on this.

  3. Laurie says

    Oh my. this came at the perfect time. After hubby and I decided not for me to go to NH with our 9 month old son to visit some relatives, I am now having to go for a cousin who is not doing well. We leave in a few weeks and this is the best help I’ve seen that might let us survive. We’ve done the hotel playpen crib and my mom has one at her house, but he can be near impossible to get down. We are flying so bringing a mattress along may not work, but if anyone has other suggestions for bedding I’d love to hear it.

    And please… we are on a plane for a long time. Any experts out there that can give me hints to surviving that. I even upgraded us to the extra leg room seat on the longest segment just so we would be too squished.

  4. Anna Talis says

    For room darkening, you can get Redi Shade at any Home Depot or Lowes. They attach to the top of the window case with an adhesive strip, can be cut to size and come in room darkening or blackout. At $5-6 each, you can get a few to cover whatever windows you might encounter in your travels with a minimal expense. They even come in a 4-pack. 🙂

  5. Emily DeJeu says

    @ Joleen — Agreed! Those hotel port-a-cribs are just ridiculous. Pack-n-plays to the rescue!! 😉

    @ Meagan — thanks for the extra mattress tip!

    Regarding the nap transition — I’m in the same boat. 🙂 My youngest, who’s 13 months, is proving to be a late-walker, too, and she’s still taking 2 naps a day. I keep waiting for her to give me the signs that she’s ready for 1, but they’re just not happening! She seems perfectly content with 2.

    In terms of when the transition happens, I think most people find it comes around the 12 month mark. But we’ve found that 15-18 months is actually a more “average” age.

    This article on might help; it’s written specifically about the transition from two naps to one: https://www.babysleepsite.com/baby-naps-2/12-month-olds-one-nap-transition/

    Let us know what you end up doing!

  6. Emily DeJeu says

    @ Nicole Clancy — glad you’ve found that “pre-sleeping” works for you! I have, too. I think the feel of the pack-n-play is different enough for babies that they need a day or two to adjust.

    @ Rebekah — good point! I suppose that if your travels are going to include lots of time walking around and pushing baby in the stroller, then it’d be crucial to get her used to napping in the stroller. Way to think ahead!

  7. Meagan says

    This might seem obvious to everyone else, but we bought an extra mattress for the pack n play. Our son would go down for bed or naps without too much trouble, on schedule, then wake up after too short a time. We couldn’t think what to do, but it finally occurred to us that the pack n play “mattress” is just a quilted piece of board over four rigid bars! We got an extra mattress for our last trip and he slept beautifly. Just make sure to buy the “extra firm” version for a baby… The one we got is awfully spongy, and if my son were any younger I’d have worried about SIDS.

    I have a question about nap transitioning… My son is 14 months and on two naps… We fly out to the west coast in 2 and a half months and I’d kind of like him on 1 nap by then. He isnt walking yet, so I’m still anticipating that extra need for sleep when he starts. When do you recommend switching to 1 nap for late walkers? Should I wait until after the trip to avoid too much change right before, or start earlier to give him time to recover? He didn’t really transition naturally from 3 to 2… I had to decide when he was ready, so he may end up being the same way this round… When do most kids transition to 1 nap?

  8. Joleen says

    We travel often by car and I do many of the things suggested and find it really goes a long way to keeping my daughter as well rested as she can be.
    It is really helpful to keep everything as similar as possible from home. Same sheets, same lovey, white noise, the same PJs she slept in the night before, etc.
    One time, we thought we’d give the hotel’s complimentary crib a try and had it rolled to our room.
    Big mistake! It was like a squeaky monkey cage on wheels with my daughter enjoying every minute as the monkey!
    Good thing we had our Pack N Play in the car!

    Someday I hope for one of those “highly adaptable” babies that I hear so much about…. lol.

  9. Rebekah says

    With my second child I started putting her in her pushchair for naps as she always seemed to fall asleep just around the time I had to walk out to get her brother from nursery. I’m so glad I did that – it seemed like a bad idea but when we had a trip to Canada she napped really well in her pushchair, just like back at home. Turns out a portable napping place is a great option for us!

  10. Nicole Clancy says

    The first time we travelled didn’t work very well as I didn’t do any preparations, but after this I found “pre-sleeping” in the portacot very useful and led to us all having much more peaceful breaks!. Bubba would sleep in it for both naps and nighttime for 2 days before going away. I’d use sheets with a pattern on them and take them with us so they were familiar in sight and smell. Since turning one, she’s much more adaptable but I still take her current sheets with us but don’t worry about presleeping in the portacot anymore.